“What so tempting about a fast pace life is because it is result oriented. To be result oriented means you don't dwell, think, or questioning too much about your decisions and the impact of those results. Any result is a good result. Any instant result, any fast success feeling, means fast dopamine and who doesn't want dopamine?
At this point of life, I fully realized that no failure is actually a failure. When I have put my best effort and tried my best, yet it still didn't work as how I predicted, most of the times, it was how life tells me, “it is not your way”.
Most people find it hard to describe what they want, but I believe everyone knows what he/she doesn't want. It actually works the same. To pursue what we want or to avoid what we don't want, both will take us to the similar point.
It's just a matter of perspective. Life is.
Don't you think it is such a waste to live life half-heartedly?
No matter who you love, you will still find sadness and pain in between.
“Time and our journey are like the view that we see through our side window, fast and blurry.
While the past is like the view on the rearview mirror, slow, clear, and selected.
But then there is always the blind spot that we missed to see.”
Master your strength, outsource your weaknesses, amplify your uniqueness.
Attract what you expect, reflect what you desire, become what you respect, mirror what you admire.
Simple rules of life. 🖤
A stranger who sat next to me kept sigh-ing for few minutes and I asked him what happened.
He said he was going to have a job interview in twenty minutes. I smiled, talked a bit with him, and handed him my lucky necklace, sayin he will do well, right before he went to the interview.
“So you get the idea. You know that feeling when you listen to some music and your brain feels like exploded.
Our brains love to predict everything. So when you listen to some notes, the brain loves to do the prediction of what notes come next. The harder it is being guessed, the more pleasure it brings to your brain when it gets the notes correctly.
They said it is easier to leave rather than being left behind. But I guess, they have never left someone they love wholeheartedly. They have never left because of love.
Pain, longing, and sadness work two ways. As fair as it ever, always. To leave and to be left behind, when two people love and care towards each other, the void is there. Real.
And when it happened, do make the most of it to be your best. To make things work better. Cause someone is sacrificing the heart for you.
I wish you well.