It's Okay
Life can be confusing sometimes, and it's okay.
People can be judgemental and demanding many times, and it's okay.
Things can be messy most of the times, and it's okay.
Feelings can be tricky each time, and it's okay.
You'll always find a reason to smile or to cry, in any circumstance that you are facing. And there will always be a good thing to learn from each of them.
Just make sure you have a good reason to choose what to feel. To smile or to cry.